Sunday, December 21, 2014

Breaking Tradition

Many families have Christmas traditions.  Some gather together on Christmas Eve...some Christmas day.  Some gather when ever or where ever they can to accommodate schedules.  Growing up, Christmas day was when we opened gifts and celebrated. Of course church was another tradition.  Midnight mass was usually when we went when I was a teen...I really don't remember going on Christmas day. Hmm..I need to check with Mom on that one! As we grew up and had homes of our own, Christmas Eve was held at different homes each year. The last one I hosted when I lived in Chicago was in 1975.  Our first born son wasn't in a manger...but he was in the hospital NICU.  He was born premature a month before Christmas...exactly...and was still in the hospital.  My family gathered at our tiny apartment.  The same traditions were honored...gifts, food, and family.  I had to work the midnight shift at the hospital.  I didn't mind because that's the same hospital my baby was in and I could spend his first Christmas with him on my break.  I remember going in to see him and on his incubator was a tiny angel and the smallest pair of Christmas socks ever!  I still have those tiny socks....I doubt his 39yr old feet would fit them! Ha! Many things had changed by the next Christmas in 1976.  My Dad passed away that November and Jack graduated from Chiropractic college and we moved to Ohio.  We moved into his family's traditions.  We would gather together with is family on Christmas day to open gifts and enjoy family and food.  We would head down to the farm and gape at the ginormous tree they always had and enjoy Jack's Mom's delish food....many things that I now serve are recipes from those days.  I wish his Mom and Dad were still here to celebrate with us.  Now we host the gathering here at the Pines.  Tradition has us getting together on Christmas day also.  Except for this year.  We moved the celebration to today.  I'm having bilateral knee surgery on Friday and felt it would be better to do this today....and I'm glad we did.  It was a lovely day all around.  The weather was in the upper 30's...warm for us! The sun actually shown bright and it was great to see everyone.  We sure wish our son Craig and his family could be here, but living in Oregon makes it hard to be together for holidays.  The usual things we do on Christmas day were done today...this first day of Winter. (I think the first day is today!) The shortest day of the year, but it was long on love, laughter, fun, family, food and gifts.
The tree was ready with the gift part! (A little football before the gift opening didn't hurt!)
Jack in his favorite Christmas shirt!
Cameron giving Squeak a little head rub...Squeak looks like she's just tolerating it to be nice!
Summer claims her spot on the couch.
Anthony took the recliner!
Cameron....what a sweet kiddo!
Jordan..on the left..Phil on the right....snacking in the middle...oh wait, maybe it's Addy in the middle!
After the gifts were opened...I never got one shot of that..too busy playing Mrs. Claus!
Dinner was held in the dining room. 
With a little table for the littles in the group! I was really having trouble with my camera blurring the shots...or maybe it's just user error...I was a bit bummed by the results..sorry!
Dessert was amazing...calories don't happen on Christmas...just sayin.
Jack grabbed the little ones and took them for a ride around the pines...the fresh air and fun was just what was needed after dinner.  I hate to leave this with a blurry shot so here's a clearer pic.
Anthony riding shotgun and the little monsters hiding in the back are Addy and Cameron.  Poor Lexi was sick and had headed up to a nap after dinner. So tradition may have been broken this year, but the rest was as we remember it to be.  However you celebrate, I hope this Christmas finds you healthy and happy and remembering the gift of our Savior, Jesus Christ, and all the blessings that were had this year.  Enjoy this Christmas week!

12 comments:

betty said...

Oh my gosh; bilateral knees!! I hope you make a speedy recovery! Because we have moved around a lot, we have made our own traditions that have incorporated this and that and then included regular traditions from growing up years when we were back close to family. What I have learned is it doesn't matter how it is celebrated, as long as it is celebrated with those we love and it seems like your celebrations today fit just that bill!

betty

acorn hollow said...

It looks like a wonderful celebration and the littles makes the day.
Good luck with your knees.
Merry Christmas!
Cathy

Shady Del Knight said...

Hello, dear YaYa! What a touching tale about your first son needing to gain strength in the hospital at Christmas and you having the opportunity to look in on him during work breaks on the night shift. I'm sure that story has been told at many of your family's holiday gatherings over the years.

Thank you for showing us the family fun as you celebrated Christmas a little early this year. I wish Jordan and Eddy could have been there but it's always nice to see your kitty cat Squeak along with your grandkiddos and other family members.

I will be thinking about you this Friday when you have knee surgery and praying that all goes well. I know it will bring you great relief when it is behind you and you have recovered and can walk in greater comfort. God bless you and your family, dear YaYa, and have a merry Christmas!

Rick Watson said...

Merry Christmas Yaya. We'll be thinking of you Friday.
I know you'll be dancing by Valentines Day.

rosaria williams said...

Oh Yaha, thanks for sharing your enthusiasm and your lovely family with us. You are an inspiration.

111 LaLa Lane said...

What a wonderful Christmas with family, good food and fun. Best of luck to you with your surgery. I'll say a prayer for you....that it's textbook and your recovery will be quick and easy. Merry Christmas!

gin said...

Merry Christmas! It doesn't matter what day the tradition is held or even if it's a new tradition. Just the time and memories is what makes the tradition. I will be thinking of you Friday on your surgery. And I'll be checking in at The Pines for an update on you.

joanne said...

Looks like you had a wonderful Christmas. With both of us doing shift work in places that never close down we often had our celebrations at unusual times but we were always thankful for the blessings of being together no matter when or where it happened. As it happens this year we will fit it in on Christmas Eve while my hubby has a few hours off on a nine day stretch. Merry Christmas, and best wishes for your surgery and a quick recovery. ;j

Becky Jerdee said...

Loved reading about your early celebration...and I wish you all the best for your knee surgery. I'll be thinking of you...Merry Christmas, Kathy!

Julia said...

Dear Yaya, it looks like you had a wonderful Christmas celebration with your lovely family.

I guess it's a tough way for a girl to take a break but I'm wishing you a speedy recovery. I'll be thinking of you even though I know you're in good hands.

Merry Christmas,
Hugs,
JB

Susan Anderson said...

Merry, merry Christmas. And I hope your knee surgery goes well and heals quickly!

=)

PS. Loved hearing about your little baby and the angel and socks. So sweet.

selvageedge said...

I guess I've been distracted by other things this week, because you've gotten in three blog posts while I wasn't looking!
Good luck on your surgery tomorrow. You are in my prayers.